TraumaWise Parenting Summit Schedule

Here's How the Summit Will Work

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Check your email inbox each morning

Every day, a link will be sent to your email with access to that day's sessions. All sessions are released at the same time that day and expire at the same time 72 hours after.

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Click to tune into any session you want once they release

All sessions for any particular day go live at 10 am PDT that morning and are available for you to engage with at your pace for a full 72 hours.

Once the 72 hours are up, the session will expire, and only those with a TraumaWise ToolKit can stream them.

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Repeat


This process repeats itself everyday for three days. Make sure to make note of what presentations you want to watch in advance so that you don't run out of time.

Day 1 Theme: Felt-Safety
Beginning at 10am (PST) on Monday, September 15

Adair Finucane, LMSW

What does trauma‑informed parenting look like on a Tuesday morning when everyone’s frayed? In this honest, practical interview, coach and facilitator Adair Finucane blends research‑informed wisdom with lived experience as a queer, neurodivergent parent living with complex PTSD.

Adair reframes safety as subjective and teaches a humane lens: we’re “nervous systems first,” and behavior makes sense through that lens. Instead of chasing perfection, you’ll learn the everyday skills that build felt‑safety and capacity: balancing high nurture + high structure, using repair as the path back after rupture, and replacing the buzzword “regulation” with resonance — aligning body, mind, and heart for what this moment actually needs. 

Courtney Carlson 

Cycles end when someone says: This ends with me. In this vulnerable, practical session, educator and healing advocate Courtney Carlson maps how intergenerational trauma travels — and how caregivers can interrupt it without losing themselves. Drawing from her lived experience growing up amid addiction, volatility, and codependency, Courtney names the messy truth: healing is not tidy, quick, or linear. But it is possible. You’ll learn how to separate what’s mine vs. what’s theirs, shift from fixing to supporting, and build felt‑safety with steady boundaries and honest, kind language.

If you’ve wondered whether a different future is possible for your family, this session offers a grounded yes: imperfect people, practicing better patterns, changing what gets passed down.

Melanie Williams

Parenting doesn’t come with a license — and most of us learned on the job. That’s why parental guilt shows up so often, especially for trauma‑impacted families. In this shame‑free session, clinician and behavioral health administrator Melanie Williams, LCSW (aka The NonJudgemental Therapist) reframes guilt as a messenger instead of a verdict. You’ll learn the difference between guilt and shame, how guilt can point us back to what matters, and why felt‑safety and self‑compassion make change possible.

Melanie normalizes the big triggers (losing your temper, screen time, work‑life strain, comparison traps) and brings trauma awareness to the conversation. No perfection pressure — just doable practices that build safety for you and your child. Guilt can become a guide; together we’ll learn how.

Sai Praneetha Mutyala

When we ignore the body’s whispers, it eventually has to shout. In this compassionate, research‑informed session, Sai Praneetha Mutyala offers a practical way for caregivers to hear and honor what the body is saying long before crisis. You’ll learn why the nervous system flags danger pre‑consciously (neuroception) and how symptoms are the body’s language—information, not failure.

Sai clarifies the difference between burnout and trauma and reminds us that when adults can listen to their bodies with curiosity rather than judgment, home gets safer, connection gets easier, and co‑regulation becomes possible. Come as you are; leave with a kinder rhythm you can practice tonight.

Renae M. Dupuis

When safety is only a rule, kids don’t feel it. When safety is felt, everything else gets easier: honesty, transitions, problem‑solving, learning. In this session, Renae M. Dupuis, Founder of TraumaWise, turns “felt‑safety” from a concept into a step‑by‑step home audit you can complete in under an hour. 

This talk fills the practical gaps between trauma theory and a Tuesday night at home. No perfection pressure—just small, repeatable moves that make safety feelable for everyone. 

Ce Eshelman, LMFT

If your child lies about everything — the snack wrapper, the homework, even brushing teeth — you’re not crazy and you’re not failing. You’re likely bumping into survival brain. In this compassionate, straight‑talk session, attachment and trauma specialist Ce Eshelman, LMFT pulls lying out of the “moral failure” bucket and puts it where it belongs: a protective adaptation for kids from difficult beginnings. Through memorable stories from four decades in the therapy room, Ce decodes why kids lie (fear of trouble, shame avoidance, and mistrust built from early control and danger) and shows you a better way forward. You’ll practice a three‑part response that actually works.

This isn’t about letting things slide; it’s about making truth safe so honesty wins more often — and everyone’s nervous systems can exhale.

Emily Remsen

Reading isn’t just about skills; it can be a safety ritual. In this practical, shame‑free session, educator and advocate Emily Remsen reframes literacy as a daily way to whisper “you belong” — especially on hard days. You’ll learn three flexible tiers that you can rotate by energy and need: read to, read with, and read near. Each tier is designed to lower threat and increase choice so perfectionism, avoidance, or “not at grade level” don’t hijack the moment. 

Emily offers sensory‑smart tweaks, plus gentle prompts that move beyond quizzing to curious conversation about feelings, choices, and values. Start where you are; let reading time become a felt‑safety anchor that naturally bridges to connection — no gold stars required.

Maria Belanic

Felt‑safety is the soil grief needs to breathe. Grief doesn’t move in a straight line — and it doesn’t mean you’re broken. In this intimate interview, Maria Belanic (bereaved mom; Certified Grief Educator) offers a compassionate map for caregivers navigating loss, trauma, and the lonely in‑between. Maria shares her story of parenting through a child’s long illness and the after — naming the loops of guilt (the “coulda‑woulda‑shoulda”), the shock of a world that looks the same when yours has shattered, and the pressure of hustle culture to “move on.” Instead, she invites a gentler way: see grief as a companion, not a deadline; remember that trauma lives in the body; and practice healing that doesn’t erase love — because healing isn’t forgetting.

You’ll learn Maria’s CARE framework and leave with tools to build felt‑safety in hard conversations, connection rituals that honor both love and loss, and permission to live again without betraying what (or whom) you miss. This session is a balm: honest, practical, and deeply human.

Rosie Savage

A cramped pantry. A crowded doorway. A veteran mom’s nervous system hits red, and the room goes muffled. In this candid, deeply hopeful session, Rosie Savage (MSW/CEO/Author/Activist/Veteran) names what many families live: trauma doesn’t end where it started — it echoes. With story and science, Rosie normalizes intergenerational impact (how bodies remember) while insisting on our power to change the ending at home.

You’ll learn a gentle path from survival to felt‑safety. This is parenting on purpose, across generations, so our children inherit more safety than fear.

Day 2 Theme: Connection
Beginning at 10am (PST) on Tuesday, September 16

Alyssa Rose

Parenting asks so much of our hearts — and often asks us to carry it alone. In Reclaiming Village: Community Grief Tending in Modern Parenting, grief guide and ritualist Alyssa Rose opens a gentle, practical doorway into grief literacy and community ritual for real family life. You’ll explore why “the truth about grief is that it arises with all change, even good change,” how modern isolation amplifies parental burnout, and why social support is the strongest protective factor.

Learn how to model healthy grief for your children, transform unmet expectations into meaning, and weave practices of remembrance and co‑regulation into the everyday. Come as you are; leave with language, ritual, and a simple plan to tend grief together — so your home can hold more compassion, connection, and breath.

Dr. David Adams

When caregiving gets loud and messy, connection is built in the after — the repair. Licensed psychologist and lived‑experience dad Dr. David Adams reframes ruptures (the blowups and shut‑downs we all have) as opportunities to model the way back. Drawing from clinical work and the chaos of real family life, he teaches a simple, repeatable rhythm: regulate first, own your part, enter your child’s emotional reality, invite a redo, and make a small next step together. You’ll hear word‑for‑word language for apologies that heal, plus a trauma‑informed lens for decoding behavior. 

Because staying connected requires capacity, David also normalizes compassion fatigue as the neurobiological cost of caring and gives practical safeguards: gather a support team, schedule micro‑respite, and use quick screeners to catch overload early. Expect a tender blend of science and solidarity — from a parent‑professional who admits he still gets it wrong sometimes and models how to repair, again and again.

Louis Scarantino

Parenting an autistic child can stretch your capacity — not your worth. In this empowering, straight‑from‑lived‑experience session, autism advocate and speaker Louis Scarantino turns the spotlight toward you: your nervous system, your support, and your hope. Louis names what so many caregivers feel but rarely hear reflected back — the isolation, the constant advocacy, the fear of judgment — and then offers a humane, doable path forward: the Supportive Triad.

With scripts to ask for help, a quick cognitive‑reframing practice, and a monthly action challenge, this session meets you where you are and grows your capacity from there. You’ll leave seen, steadied, and equipped to navigate systems while protecting your own well‑being — because your mental health matters as much as your child’s future.

Sadie Dodson

A slammed door. A rising voice. The thought, “I sounded just like my parent.” When stress hits, we react from what we were given — but we’re not stuck there. In this practical, hope‑filled session, parent educator Sadie Dodson teaches a simple framework that turns daily chaos into steadier connection: high nurture + high structure. Think warm relationship and clear limits — not soft, not strict… both. Sadie explains the science in plain language: co‑regulation is how nervous systems sync when a calm adult stays present; those micro‑moments of serve‑and‑return (the “dance”) wire the brain for trust and emotional control.

You’ll learn exactly how to put this into practice: regulate your body first, connect before you correct , and build two daily practices. Finally, Sadie’s 1‑minute NAME repair shows you how to come back together after conflict without shame. The result? Predictable love and reliable limits that kids can count on — the soil where resilience grows.

Renae M. Dupuis

Connection isn’t the absence of conflict; it’s the presence of repair. On Day 2, host Renae M. Dupuis equips caregivers with a concrete rupture→repair flow you can use tonight. Start with Regulate, then Reflect impact without shaming, Repair with ownership + dignity‑protecting boundaries, Rehearse a do‑over, and Re‑enter with a micro‑ritual that says, “We’re okay.

Repair doesn’t erase rupture; it writes safety into the story. And families who repair well, connect deeper.

Dana Brown

PACEs Science — Positive and Adverse Childhood Experiences — gives caregivers a map for what hurts and what heals. In this clear, heart‑forward session, statewide facilitator Dana Brown distills the five parts of PACEs Science. She also translates science into daily connection: how to respond when a child’s nervous system is in survival, how to swap “get over it” for grace and repair, and how to install simple heart‑focused breathing moments that help everyone’s brain come back online.

You’ll also hear how communities are becoming HOPE‑informed (Healthy Outcomes from Positive Experiences) and why cultural humility — showing up as a learner — protects dignity.

Hope Reger

Grief changes us — and it doesn’t only come from death. We grieve identities, seasons, relationships, and the people we’re still becoming. In The HOPE Factor, nonprofit founder and bereaved mother Hope Reger offers a compassionate, do‑able way to move through adversity without abandoning yourself or your children. Hope’s signature framework, H.O.P.E., turns overwhelm into a plan you can live with.

Hope normalizes retreat, rest, and re‑entry as part of growth — not failure. You’ll leave with a printable HOPE worksheet, language to talk about grief without overburdening kids, and a rhythm for moving from devastation to determination one doable step at a time. This is not about “staying positive.” It’s about honest inventory, open‑minded courage, simple planning, and kind execution — in community. Bring your story; build your next season.

Meghann Dawson

For many of us, childhood meant hiding — feelings, needs, and even our true self — to keep the peace. In this vulnerable, powerfully practical session, speaker and empowerment coach Meghann Dawson names what she wishes the adults around her had known: children don’t need perfection; they need attunement. Meghann shows caregivers how to connect to a child’s inner world so performance can give way to belonging. You’ll learn simple, shame‑free ways to reflect back identity (“who you are”), not just behavior (“what you do”), and how to talk about hard things without forcing silver linings.

Expect scripts, rituals, and a 30‑day family challenge to deepen trust. This is connection as practice — not perfection — so kids can grow up knowing safety lives with people, not just rules.

Thomas R. Wilson

Connection grows when kids are treated with dignity. Educator/advocate Thomas R. Wilson shares three scaffolds for neuro‑diverse families: Joy First (release pressure, connect on purpose), Autonomy (choices + the dignity of risk), and Adaptability (flex your plan, not your values).

Leave with scripts, step‑downs, and a family plan you can start tonight.

Dr. Vicki Sanders

When stress spikes, most of us default to reacting — talking faster, tightening rules, throwing “fuel on the fire.” In this clear, compassionate session, relational‑trauma specialist Dr. Vicki Sanders shows caregivers a different way: responding with language that builds connection and safety. You’ll learn why relational trauma is real trauma (the brain reads emotional threats like physical ones), how nervous systems cue each other, and why your tone and pace matter more than perfect words. 

Expect real‑life examples across ages (toddlers to teens) and a reminder that intention isn’t impact — children experience our tone first. You’ll leave with a printable RESPOND Playbook and language that lowers defenses, restores dignity, and teaches skills — so home becomes a place where truth and trust can grow.

Day 3 Theme: Co-Regulation
Beginning at 10am (PST) on Wednesday, September 17

Adair Finucane, LMSW

Balancing formal training in nervous system health & trauma-informed care with personal experience as a neurodivergent mom with a history of trauma, Adair invites you into simple, mindful practices for self- and co-regulation through this presentation.

Expect practical guidance on helping both yourself and the children in your life to build skills that foster connection, ease, and resonance.

David Starbuck Smith 

What if the way you carry your body impacts how your family members feel around you? In this eye-opening presentation, David Starbuck Smith introduces an integrated approach to stress, posture, and emotional release — and how they shape the way we show up in relational spaces. When we align our bodies and listen to their messages, we not only heal chronic pain — we cultivate presence, trust, and deeper connection.

For parents navigating stress, burnout, and invisible trauma, this talk offers a path to reconnect with yourself so you can reconnect with others.

Rev. Lotus La Loba

You don’t have to be perfect to raise a resilient kid — you have to be present. In this uplifting, practical session, trauma-informed educator and reverend Lotus La Loba names a liberating truth: trauma happens. Instead of chasing perfection (and burning out), Lotus shows you how to prepare kids with tools for when life is overwhelming. You’ll learn the heartbeat of repair (how to circle back after conflict so trust grows), why honesty builds safety (and exactly what to say), and how to reframe play as a biological resource — not a reward — with a bonus reframe on boredom as fuel for creativity and self-regulation.

Lotus also guides a gentle EFT tapping reset you can use with your child in minutes to reconnect body, brain, and relationship when words won’t land. Walk away with language, micro-rituals, and a simple weekly rhythm that strengthens felt-safety, connection, and co-regulation — so their spark isn’t managed, it’s sustained.

Mindy Duff

When your nervous system is frayed, everything feels harder — even the stuff you know how to do. In this heart‑centered, highly practical session, educator and holistic health coach Mindy Duff offers a calm path back to steadier ground. You’ll start with a hopeful truth: neuroplasticity — your brain can change at any age — so small, repeated shifts matter. Then, Mindy guides you through do‑able daily supports: body basics, micro‑practices for mood (the playful “Things That Don’t Suck” game and the Emotional Guidance Scale to climb one step at a time), and self‑leadership moves that pull you from victimhood to empowered choice. 

Throughout, she threads compassion with practical tools you can use the same day. Leave with scripts, checklists, and a short routine you can post on the fridge — because steadier adults make safer homes, and regulation is contagious.

Courtney Carlson

Co‑regulation is not rescuing — it’s creating a steady space where big feelings can move without blame. In this vulnerable, skill‑rich session, educator Courtney Carlson builds on Part 1 and shows caregivers how to parent after trauma with clarity, calm, and real empowerment. Courtney demonstrates what a co‑regulation “bubble” looks like — a calm, validating presence that holds space without fixing — and offers concrete validation language kids of all ages can feel.

This is healing parenting: honest, embodied, and deeply relational — so your children can build trust, voice, and resilience inside a home that feels safe enough to be human.

Georgia Etheridge Stephens

Co‑regulation is the bridge between your healing nervous system and your child’s safety. Parenting while healing can feel like holding a baby in one arm and your own story in the other. In this honest, deeply practical session, Georgia Etheridge Stephens — Certified Child Life Specialist, full‑spectrum doula, and founder of The Pod Family Center — names what so many caregivers live but rarely say out loud: unresolved trauma doesn’t wait its turn. It pops up like a beach ball you try to hold underwater — especially during big transitions (pregnancy, adoption/foster placements, postpartum, loss, or when your child reaches the age you were when harm occurred).

Georgia shares her lived journey through postpartum depression/anxiety and undiagnosed complex PTSD, and how trauma‑informed, community‑based care helped her rebuild connection with her child.

Kate Lynch

Co‑regulation starts with how we treat ourselves under stress. Parenting neurodivergent and sensitive kids can feel like a test you can’t study for. In this grounded, heart‑centered session, mindful parenting coach Kate Lynch reframes self‑compassion as a practical parenting tool — not a luxury. She defines self‑compassion as turning toward yourself without judgment, remembering you’re not alone, and meeting pain with the desire to relieve it. Kate busts common myths, then offers a simple nervous‑system primer  so you can tell what your body needs before you spiral.  

Leave with language to interrupt self‑criticism, a template for modeling self‑kindness so kids internalize it, and community‑minded ways to feel less alone. Come as you are; walk away steadier, kinder, and more connected to yourself and your child.

Renae M. Dupuis

Co‑regulation is most needed where it’s least convenient: in the car, at the store, five minutes before bedtime. In this closing session, host Renae M. Dupuis turns Day 1’s soil (felt‑safety) and Day 2’s roots (repair) into a canopy of real‑world co‑reg you can carry anywhere. You’ll learn the S.O.S. Algorithm—See the state, Organize two options, Stepwise one tiny move—and apply it to seven common scenarios: morning rush, car meltdowns, grocery‑store overwhelm, school pickup transitions, homework walls, bedtime spirals, and medical/dental appointments.

This session connects the trilogy: Soil → Roots → Canopy. You’ll leave with tools, language you can trust under pressure, and permission to be human while safeguarding dignity and safety—yours and your child’s.

Live Sessions

Sunday, September 14 - 3:00 PM (PDT)

Summit Kick-off Call

Come hang out with us on Zoom and hear about all the cool things coming September 15-17!


Monday, September 15 - 12:00 pm (PST)

Connection Hub #1

Join us on Zoom for three 20-minute live sessions of breakout rooms to connect with other summit participants and build your community!

Tuesday, September 16 - 9:00 Am (PDT)

Connection Hub #2

Join us on Zoom for three 20-minute live sessions of breakout rooms to connect with other summit participants and build your community!

Tuesday, September 16 - 2:00 pm (PDT)

Speaker Q+A Panel

Super Cool stuff to be listed here

Wednesday, September 17 - 6:30 pm (PDT)

Connection Hub #3

(for TraumaWise ToolKit holders only)

Join us on Zoom for three 20-minute live sessions of breakout rooms to connect with other summit participants and build your community!

Thursday, September 18 - 2:00 pM (PDT)

Summit Closing Call

Endings are actually really important to our mental health, plus, you never know what you might learn. Join us to wrap things up and share your next steps.

BONUS!

Friday, September 19 - 12:00 pm (PDT)

Implementation Q+A Call

Join us on Zoom for a live call to share and learn from other participants of the Summit as we explore the next steps for implementing TraumaWise parenting practices. Bring your notes and questions, and let's begin applying the tools and resources from our generous speakers!

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